I would prefer GSW out of those! Dallas won't make it IMO now and Utah or LAL will get the 8th seed. I feel the Spurs slip to the 2nd and draw Houston (If GSW slip though so be it), so thats the matchup I think they get.
Win or lose this is a game -
You could let it pick your brain for weeks and months, just replay it over and over, won't do you any good at all. When someone loses a loved one and they do that it only brings forth anguish. I feel acceptance is sometimes the key, it happened, now you have to react to it. Giving up is not an option.