F the all star game, I don't watch crap from it anyways! I will not start this year as I have not watched it truly since 04 or so. I used to watch the dunk contest and will at times, but man the game itself? I would tune in some but ingore it and pay attention to the internet over it lol.
Win or lose this is a game -
You could let it pick your brain for weeks and months, just replay it over and over, won't do you any good at all. When someone loses a loved one and they do that it only brings forth anguish. I feel acceptance is sometimes the key, it happened, now you have to react to it. Giving up is not an option.