Gators fan here, I could care less if the REST of the SEC loses it's bowl games as long as FLA holds it downn and wins..... I agree with you guys in here, the conference loyalty is a joke, it's about YOUR team, fans and players alike take it way too seriously (Media too).
Win or lose this is a game -
You could let it pick your brain for weeks and months, just replay it over and over, won't do you any good at all. When someone loses a loved one and they do that it only brings forth anguish. I feel acceptance is sometimes the key, it happened, now you have to react to it. Giving up is not an option.