thanks for all the info guys...thanks all are great points and tips.the last thing we want is to struggle with pymts. we know if its meant to be then great, if not then thats ok too.
the house is a starter home and yes it is an existing home. its only 5 yrs old and the asking price right now is $86,000. the seller is selling it "as is" and the seller is another bank, so i assume it might be a house that was foreclosed?
thank you guys for the advice i will talk things thru with my fiancee and see whats best for us. we really appreciate it and if anything comes about i'll message you guys. thanks